I call myself a control freak and it’s affecting my family. I want to control everything. To what time the kids eat, to what time they are on the electronics. Plus, I also want to control my husband and how he should take care of the kids when they’re under his care. This has been a power struggle between my 13 year old son and myself. I just want to be free of this and feel more relaxed and not be in constant control. Please advice how I can start this process.