Correct Result Line for an ‘I Should’ Thought


I am having trouble coming up with the right R line for a ‘should’ thought…

For example:

C- Someone said “I am having a hard time with my daughter”
T- I should have offered to coach her
F- regret
A- didn’t offer to coach, judge myself, focus internally instead of on external conversation, think of other things that I should be doing
R- I shouldn’t judge myself? I should have coached myself? I fight with reality?