Couple + demotivation 2


Your question: What does being “in love” sound like? Feel like? Look like?
My answer:
> do not look at the “defaults” of the other but rather at his qualities (or see the “defaults” as cute)
> be curious and ask what the other person thinks
> accept the other as he is
> be enthusiastic about a future together

Your question: If this is an experience you want to create, what’s one thing you can do to create that combination of thoughts, feelings, and actions in your relationship today?
My answer:
C my relationship with my husband today
T I will not criticize my husband today, not judge him, not put himself down, and not wish he was better
E committed
A I don’t criticize my husband today, not judge him, not put himself down, and not wish he was better
I see what’s good in our relationship and life
R I choose love instead of hate

I will try this model today! Thanks.