Creating the next thing

I have always wanted a home that was a refuge. I didn’t”t have that growing up or in my first marriage.

I want a place where me, my husband my kids, could come for a hug, regroup, maybe some pats on the butt with a “you got this”. A place where someone isn’t kicked while they are down.

I don’t think I am creating that from lack. But I’m aware that I am wanting it because I didn’t have it in my past. Is that coming from lack?