*criticising


Hi Brooke,

Why is it, that it so easy to criticize other people and why pretty much all people like criticising others?

I have been paying attention to this, and i have noticed that although i am trying hard to avoid criticising, it is hard as most of the conversations at work are about criticising others. The other day i was trying to defend a person that is always criticized and i noticed that i was pittying him which actually did not do any better…

Why is it that people just like/ tend to criticise others and why does it feel so good. I think when you criticize you are just doing so because the other person has something that you dont or perhaps it is just a mirror of your own fear / weakness and it shows a huge lack of self love but it is so easy to end up criticising over and over…
Any thoughts??

K