Hello! My question has to do with dating. I know deep down I would love to find a partner. I make efforts to sign up for online dating apps but I rarely find anyone I would like to connect with. I know when I get excited to meet someone because I feel excited and I actually look forward to meeting the person. But most of the time if I do get matched with someone I find myself hesitating to start the chat or feel unmotivated to make the time to meet people.

I guess my question is, do I find thoughts that help me to feel motivated knowing this is part of the process? Or because I know when I am excited do I just wait for those moments?

On one hand I understand I can look at this as a challenge/goal and put myself out there, but on the other hand I sense that this is going against my intuition.

Would love your thoughts on this!