I have a 22 year old daughter who has just recently completed her college degree in Actuarial Sciences. It’s time to get her first “real” job, but she is afraid to make the wrong decision about her life. I get very frustrated and it looks something like this:
C: Daughter graduated, still lives at home.
T: It’s time for her to support herself.
F: Frustration
A: Nagging, Asking for updates on her progress
R: BOTH of us are frustrated and unhappy.

Can you help me with an intentional model? I understand that I cannot control her actions, but her INACTION frustrates me.