Hi Brooke, regarding writing love stories and making your partner the love of your life in the story — I can see the value of doing this with a husband or wife or someone you have clearly decided to stay with. What about when you are dating and deciding whether this is the person to stay with? You could by this logic stay with anyone and just write a good love story for yourself. But how do you work this when you are deciding whether you are compatible enough to commit and write that love story or whether to continue assessing whether this is the right person?