Decluttering when you live with others


I am soooo on board with everything Brooke says re: purging physical things that aren’t working, drain our energy etc. My husband does not see the value of this. He is basically a hoarder and wants to hold onto everything in case it might be useable one day. It makes me crazy. I sometimes try and sneak things out. He doesn’t seem to feel the disgust and drain on his energy like I do. Any suggestions?