UM1:
The most challenging aspect of the model is coming up with potent R-lines. In addition to you helping me with that, I also appreciate your feedback about anything else that strikes you below. Thank you.

UM1:
C – I haven’t visited a dating app in months.
T – I currently have a desert experience.
F – Apathetic
A – Don’t pursue dating apps (although I spent $130 on a six month subscription), don’t seek male attention, I don’t date
R – I view my dating life through the lens of lack.

UM2:
C – Last date was in January, last partnered sexual encounter was in 2019
T – I don’t have a choice in the matter.
F – withdrawn
A – avoid Match and Hinge; tell myself I don’t want to actively pursue dating now; stopped my Conscious Dating course that I paid for
R – I don’t put myself in situations where I could meet someone I want to do it. I fail ahead of time.

IM:
C – haven’t visited apps in months; Last date was in January, last partnered sexual encounter was in 2019
T – I like feeling sexual energy between me and another person.
F – Engaged
A – Play fully light heartedly visit and interact in the apps; seek out men to have eye contact with and smile; tell my women’s group the kind of men and experiences I desire and talk about it regularly with them/seek their support with this
R – I create conditions and opportunities to engage with men sexually.