UM
C I said yes, now I want to say no
T I should stick to what I said
E frustrated
A find a time slot in my agenda, participate in the interview
R I’m using my time to do something I don’t want to do

IM
C I said yes, now I want to say no
T I want to commit to use my time as I want to
E aligned
A say no, apologize, do something I want with my time
R I commit to myself

It seems there is more growth to the IM and I like my reasons. But I feel the person will be disappointed, one shouldn’t disengage, she will miss my interview to write her thesis… I just have to allow my feelings when I say no?