Doing my purpose?

I am working on my purpose and going through the lessons for this month. My purpose is to be a caring person who loves others well. The part I am struggling with is picking a focus…picking my one big accomplishment and then deciding everything I need to do to achieve it. Can you help guide me with this part? It doesn’t seem as easy as making a 100k in your business. I can come up with the list of things to make that happen. I can’t seem to come up with the things for my purpose. Is my purpose stupid?