Dread dominant feeling pt 2

In your answer, you said “If the reason has anything to do with being uncomfortable, self-doubt and/or fear of failure, then you’ll know where your work is.”

So is my work to believe I could succeed at the things I’m being asked to do, and then make a decision about whether I do it or not? I see how I don’t yet believe it’s my thoughts. And how do I make sure I’m not punishing myself with the model? It’s really hard to see any other options yet in this circumstance. I guess that’s the work.