Dream house

I have a picture in my mind of what our forever dream house will be. My husband doesn’t want to move and has agreed to put money into our current house to make it closer to my dream house. I’m afraid if we spend that money now, I will give up my dream house and feel like I’m settling and have regrets.
C- said we will put money in this house and not move
T- I won’t be satisfied
F- I’m settling
A- don’t make a decision, constantly look for dream house, take no action to do work on this house
R- not happy with current house, resent husband, wondering what’s out there