Drink Plan for Seniors…ha

I used to drink a bottle of wine a night. I no longer do that. I usually drink on weekends. But soon I will be going to my home in AZ. It’s a retirement community full of “active seniors” who play golf, pickleball, tennis etc. Down there every day is a weekend day. Often after these activities someone suggests “going for a drink” or “come over for a drink”. I “can’t” decide ahead of time which nights I will drink because I don’t know ahead of time when the invitations are coming. Can I decide to only drink a certain number of nights a week, such as 3, not knowing exactly when those exact nights will be? I can picture limiting myself to 3 times a week, no more than 3 drinks each time. What do you think?