Ex husband sentence

I try to do an UM but I’m not sure about my R-line. My ex-husband is supposed to have the kids one weekend out of two but for 2.5 years he’s not able to have both of them at the same time so he has one or none and I have one or both so I spend lots of money on the food he should pay if he had them on his weeks.

So after 2.5 years I decided to stop accepting this way and asked for the money I spent that he should have spent.
C: ex husband said “I got it you want money”
T: he dared!
F: anger
A: resisting my anger, Not doing anything towards him, Telling my mom and my friends
R: my anger grew
I couldn’t find another R but I don’t see that it matches my T line so could you help me please?