Fear of boss


Hello coaches. I am in constant fear of my boss. Here is my model:

C: weekly call w/boss
T: she is unhappy w/me
F: insecure
A: worry, lack of focus, obsessive thoughts
R: I spin in turmoil, wondering what is to become of me … 🙂

If I want my results line to be I am a confident, adult woman, moving forward with my life on my terms, my IM is this
C: weekly call w/boss
T: nothing is wrong here
F: content
A: move forward with my day/life/vision
R: confident, adult woman, moving forward with my life on my terms

There are a couple of deep beliefs I have about myself, the world, and people, that hold me back here: 1) I always think I am in trouble, or are going to be in trouble, 2) the world is not safe, and 3) people are not safe/to be trusted.

I really do want to be a badass and just show up in this world, not constantly afraid of others having control of my destiny.