Hi, I’d like feedback on this model. This is my first month in Scholars.
I’ve been feeling negative towards my partner and focusing on the negative lately. I worked out the following models based on what was going on yesterday. Thank you!
Unintentional
C: Partner kisses me and hugs me throughout the day
T: I need to show him things are not okay.
F: Negative
A: I avoid him. I pretend he is not there. I’m cold with him, I do not reciprocate his affection.
R: I create discomfort and awkwardness when we are around each other.
Intentional
C: Partner kisses me and hugs me throughout the day
T: I need to accept his affection to get closer to him.
F: Openness
A: I acknowledge his hugs and kisses. I hug him and kiss him back.
R: I get closer to him.