Hi, I am new and trying very hard to use the model in my life. I’m struggling with getting very angry over decisions my husband makes that effect our family. ie… a child comes home driving and has been drinking. My husband tells him he shouldn’t do that and that’s the end. One more would be a child sneaks out of the house and my husband acts like it never happened the next morning. I can see that my thoughts…my son could die or this is terrible parenting is making me furious but I believe that. Therefore, I am miserable a lot. I am giving his actions power over my happiness. I would love any insights you might have.