Friend not committing


Model 1 –

C: Friend not committing to girls’ night planned for Sunday
T: I need an answer now so I can invite someone else (limited space at venue)
F: Anxious
A: Not letting others have space to make decisions, think about it constantly, be impatient, not getting to plan
R: Worry about getting answer

and Model 2 –

C: Friend not committing to girls’ night planned for Sunday
T: I’m not important enough to commit
F: Rejected
A: Hate self, question my “fun-ness” not loving myself and seeing self-worth
R: Perpetuate the idea I’m not worth it to commit

Any help on this please 🙂