I’ve had the same troubles with friends my whole life. I tend to make friends easily, then I think they’re the greatest person ever, then I eventually find something they do that makes me question their loyalty as a friend or they hurt my feelings, which I now know I’m hurting my own feelings, and I start to see them in a negative light and start to back away. I do this all the time, but now I’m mostly friends with my neighbors and I can’t back away from them because they live right by me and i see them no matter what. Plus I’ve realized I don’t want to do that and I want to have great friends that want to me around me too. I need help ending this negative cycle and figure out how to stop seeing the negativity in situations.