Frustrated by husband

I feel frustrated by my husband. I felt like this whole weekend so far he was grouchy with me, or just not even talking to me. He hasn’t been feeling well lately so I’m sure that is part of it. I have this thought that we should be close and have a “best friend” type of relationship. But I feel like he just enjoys silent companionship with me more than anything. I know with his actual friends he is more talkative/engaged. Its making me feel lonely and sad. How can I re-frame this? I think that my frustration is actually making this situation worse.