giving others the wrong impression about me


I recently sent an email to someone. I was in a hurry when I sent it. A day or two later I reread it and saw I didn’t edit it well at all. My models look like the following.

C-email says…..
T-it totally sounds like I was passing blame, creating drama and not taking responsibility.
F-yucky, uncomfortable
A-obsess about what they now think of me
R-hide or get creepy when we interact in the future

C-email says……
T-that’s not what I meant to say it so I will better edit in the future
F-uncomfortable (still choosing this emotion but on purpose)
A-move on and move forward
R-move through discomfort

Even though I change these thoughts, I feel the need to clarify it with the other person. How do I discern if that is necessary?