Giving yourself attention (Dee)

I just listened to you coach the gal with the weird 70’s house she hated, and you got to an amazing point in your coaching where you told her that it was about her relationship with herself and that she needed to give herself more attention. Can you elaborate? What are you talking about? How do we neglect ourselves? How do we give ourself more attention? What does it mean to have a better relationship with yourself?

Thank you!