I’ve made great progress with the March 2019 work about creating new beliefs and some of the April work about time. I’m finally at the place where I believe “I’m allowed to want to get married,” “I’m irresistible to my man,” and, “I can be a smart, sophisticated professional woman AND want marriage.” I was also listening to the podcast episode #86 about Do Goals this morning. There was an example given — one might want to go on 25 dates as actions to take to meet the man of your dreams. That got me thinking. I have also done multiple models on this issue and seen how my tangle of old beliefs created the result of not being married despite being with a wonderful, devoted guy. Before this work, I thought the result was all due to his thoughts and actions. I see now that my result line is always mine………..Now I need help with ideas for the new model. Suppose what I have so far is: C – my relationship, T – “of course he wants to marry me,” (?) F – pretty? Desirable? Loved? Cherished?, A – behave more calmly and lovingly? And?? R – get engaged within 4 months…………..Can I really put *anything* in the result line? I can’t make him do or not do anything. He’s his own person with his own free will. I wouldn’t even be asking this if he had not already indicated an interest in getting married. I’m just ready to really get out of my own way!