grumpy husband model for me


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C I said “You must be angry about not being able to ride your bike because it is raining”
T You must be angry about not being able to ride our bike because it is raining. This is not the thought really the thought was what could I say to ask him how he is feeling.
F concern empathy
A listened
Moving around doing stuff
Not looking at him like we were having a conversation
Made a joke that the bird is bitching at him and not me
I pointed my finger and would shake it every time the bird would say something thinking this would be funny
R He admitted that he is just a grumpy old man and settled down
I made no other comments This is not true I did say something else. Oh boy awareness time!!
Got him to stop saying negative comments?