Happy with everything in marriage but sex life

Hi Brooke
I’ve been married almost 20 years and we’ve had our ups and downs but have grown together and stayed together and to that I am truly grateful. My only complaint-& I have expressed this to my husband on numerous occasions-is our sex life. Once a week or once every 10 days is not enough for me-I’d like more-I’d like some spice and I have bought some sex toys to do this. He seems to not be into this and it saddens me. I’ve tried to do a thought intention on this but it’s not making me feel good (T-it’s ok, we have it more than a lot of couples-be happy). Any suggestions?