Having a second baby (BL)

My husband and i have a son who’s almost two. I really, really want a second baby. At this point, my husband really doesn’t. (He says the one we have is too much work.)
I have no desire to convince him, because i don’t want him to agree just to make me happy and then resent me.
But i am heartbroken over the thought of not having another baby. Where do I go from here?