Having trouble with the R

Could you help identify what R might be for this model? The A-line is not as robust as I’d like to see, but this is all I have.

C: Mom came to drop off a birthday present
T: She should care about herself enough to put herself together
F: Judgemental
A: Self-judging, Not loving mom being herself
R: ???

Thanks for your help with coming up with the R!