Help on IM

I need your help on an IM.
I usually ask for help and advice from Ben. His advice is useful to me, but then I rely too much on him and keep asking for his time and he does not commit. (All these T can be models). He does not commit. When I ask him for help, he says “I will answer you tomorrow” and then, he does not answer.

I want help on his one :

C Ben owns his time and schedule
T He is not available for me when I need it
F Alone
A Don’t ask any more for anything
R Tension in our relationship

I have no clue what should I think on purpose to feel better about him not answering my questions when he says he will answer it on a certain day.

Thank you.