Help with a Model with husband


Hi Coach,
I’ve noticed that every time my husband and I go out, he calls his family (that leaves nearby) to come with us, without asking me first.

So, here’s the Model I need some help with:
C: Walk with husband and child
T: My husband prefers to be with his family than with me (and he shouldn’t)
F: Unloved
A: Ruminate. Not talk much with him while we go out
R: My husband prefers to be with his family (because I’m not a good company)

And my intentional Model is:
C: Walk with husband and child
T: My husband prefers to be with his family than with me (and that’s ok)
F: Peace
A: I talk to him to clarify the situation and tell him that it’s ok if he prefers to see his family alone, but I just want to know
R:That’s where I’m having problem because my Result is on him and not me: My husband spend time with his family. Or is it a “better” result “I spend time with whoever I want”? But in this case, I see a disconnection with the rest of the Model