Help with intentional model


I am having a hard time thinking of what goes on the T line for my intentional model. I would love it if you could assist me and make any other corrections if possible! Thank you.

Here is my unintentional model:
C: my boyfriend and I are thinking about spending less time together over the weekend
T: our relationship will diminish and won’t be as strong. He might get used to this and not need/want me as much later. Without this level of closeness, it might be easier for him to break it off later down the line. I might not feel like I’m in a relationship anymore and start to see him as a friend if we only occasionally catch up.
F: fear, scarcity, nervousness, diminishing trust
A: distance myself, busy myself/buffer, and put up guards in order to protect and feel self sufficient. Get attached and agree to whenever he wants to hang out. Cater to him and behave in ways to make him want to be with me. Not take time for myself.
R: still prioritize him over me. Not living in integrity if I’m people pleasing. Nothing will change and our relationship will go back to taking up most of my time (not that I didn’t like that before, but now I want to be more productive on the weekends). My distant/tough exterior behavior can become a self-fulfilling prophecy in the relationship

Intentional model:
C: my boyfriend and I are thinking about spending less time together over the weekend
T:
F: secure, confident in the relationship and in myself to create a life outside of him that I love, excited for the future
A: doing activities that bring me joy, not going back and forth on whether I made the right choice, spending less time worried about the relationship or him, planning my future
R: build confidence, hopefully reaching more of my goals, more peace and less stress