I got help from the coach on the Model Q&A, and have made some adjustments based on that, but I’m still unclear.
The instructions say to put the dare in the R line of the new model.
I don’t know where to put the dare in the ‘fear’ model or if it needs to be changed for the ‘self-confidence’ model.
It seems to me that it’s the C and also an A because it’s an action. The coach agreed it is an A. And she kept it in the C as well.
So I guess it can go in all three lines, C, A and R?
C: Ask my friend to hire me.
T: She’ll laugh at me
A: Not Ask
R: Feel awkward and frustrated
C: Ask my friend to hire me
T: If I’m good enough for her to keep asking for help I’m good enough to be paid.
A: Ask my friend to hire me
R: Ask my friend to hire me (Maybe this phrasing is what’s confusing me. The coach phrased it “Dare Complete” and that I’d have self-confidence)