Help with model


Hi Brooke,
I was doing the homework this morning and wanted to run a model by you to see if I’m am on the right track or if the way I’m doing the model needs to be tweaked. I have really been thinking about the idea of becoming a financial coach for a long time, but scared to do anything about it, let alone actually say it out loud. So I thought I would do a model on it and see what I could come up with.

Unintentional thought
C: financial coaching is an option
T: no way I can do that
F: intimidated, terrified
A: don’t even try, don’t even discuss it
R: stay exactly where I am

Intentional Though
C: financial coaching is an option
T: I am passionate about this
F: excitement, fear, curiosity
A: take steps toward becoming a financial coach
R: become a FC

How does that look? Also, one more question. When we have a feeling we don’t want from a thought that we don’t necessarily want to be thinking…we just change the thought? Just like that? I’m guessing that to change that unwanted thought to one I do want will take doing the model many times to get myself to actually believe that I can change the thought, is that right? I feel like “just think happy thoughts” is more than just a one time thing if I want lasting results on the changed thought. There are so many of my thoughts that I have been thinking for soooo long that my brain really really accepts them as truth and it is super hard to change that.
Any insights would be awesome.
Thank you!
Kerrilyn