Help with model about helping my husband on his business


Hi,

I’d like some insight about a model that I have started to work on during my one-on-one coaching call and that I finished on my own.

Unintentional model:
C. Starting again to help my husband on his business.
T. I don’t want to be stressed out all over again and to fight with him.
F. I’m worried.
A. I hesitate to start again, I postpone the moment to start helping again.
R. This situation is on my mind constantly even though I haven’t done anything yet.

Intentional model:
C. Starting again to help my husband on his business.
T. There’s always a risk of failing a business, I can’t control everything, and it’s okay.
F. Relieved.
A. Review and prioritize the tasks/needs that really matter. Eliminate the rest. Focus on the tasks I do best. Delegate the rest the best I can.
R. I’m defining my role in this business.

Thanks in advance!