Hi, after some emails from colleagues after which I had thoughts and decided it was healthiest for me to leave, I have the following models, and need help clarifying the Rs.
C: Email saying I lied, they’re disgusted
T: I may have been incorrect, but not intentionally
F: Compassion for self
A: Leave. Be gentle with myself, focus on integrity moving forward, as this matters to me.
R: ?

C: Email saying I lied, they’re disgusted
T: This project is so dodgy/unethical
F: Relief
A: Leave, create my own future, reflect on the ethical concerns I had with the project, learn not to repeat this or be involved with such projects
R: ?

C: Email saying I lied, they’re disgusted
T: Not my finest hour, and that’s ok
F: Acceptance
A: Be kind to myself, allow my humanness
R?

C: Email saying I lied, they’re disgusted
T; We both messed up
F: compassion for us as humans
A: Leave the job with grace, focus on projects where I have a passion, learn about handling myself in the future
R: ??

I’m stuck, are you able to suggest any Rs for these models? Thank you