Help with particular model


I need help with the model.
unintentional:
c: Betsy left (again:) when I try to have a conversation.
t: she doesn’t want to talk to me.
f: said, disappointed, hurt, cut off,
a: I don’t do anything about it – I can’t change what she does.
r: I am hurt again

How the “intentional model” looks like – I don’t want to react / have feelings about someone else’s reaction.
I am sooo lost.

Thank you!