Help with R line


I’d like some help with this unintentional model and connecting my result with my thought. Thanks!

C: We last had sex in November 2020
T: We should have sex more often than this.  OR  People with good marriages have sex more often than this
F: Pressure
A: avoid sex, judge myself and our marriage, offer explanations/excuses to myself internally, judge those explanations/excuses, think I might want to have sex but decide I don’t want to when a possible time approaches, tell myself that a good sex life is just not part of our marriage and that it never will be, go to sleep once the kids are in bed (potential time to have sex), worry about what it means for our marriage
R: ?? We don’t have sex?? (but this is more of a result for both of us, not just might result)