When I was in the 4th grade, I saw boys chasing other girls on the playground but they never chased me. So I decided “the boys don’t like me.” I remember that moment as clear as day and I’ve lived my life from this perspective.
T: The boys don’t like me
A: Hide, avoid men, date from feeling unworthy or not good enough
Intentional Model (started with the R line)
T: Love is possible for me.
A: open to love, receptive, letting men in, making eye contact, being social, doing inner work
R: Meeting my soulmate and getting engaged in 1 year.
I’d love any other perspective on shifting this thought I’ve held since I was 9. Thank you!