He’s not as invested as I am in our relationship


I asked my BF yesterday if he’d be interested in chatting on the phone (we currently see each other 1-2 times a week). He said not really and he’s more of an in person kind of guy. This isn’t the first time he’s indicated what feels like a lack of interest, although I can also see many examples where he is interested in me.

UM
C G doesn’t want to talk on the phone
T He’s not as invested in us as I am
F Unloved
A Buffer, consider ending relationship, do models, get upset
R I’m not invested in us

IM
C G
T We can want different things and still enjoy our relationship
F Understanding
A Manage my mind, discuss with him, socialize with other people when I’m not with him
R I am invested in me.

Do you see anything else I can add to these models?

Thanks!