How can you be neutral in this situation?

I am having a difficult time understanding how does one look at dishonesty as being neutral? Also, how to come up with an intentional model when the person that was dishonest did something intentionally to hide the truth? Are there any bridge thoughts for this?

C – He limited my access to the system
T – He is doing this intentionally to continue being dishonest with me
F – Angry and disappointed
A – Trust has been broken
R – I remain angry that he removed my access, I ruminate and go into a negative cycle of mistrust, I withdraw and disconnect