How could I improve this model and how can I turn it into an intentional model?


C- Husband makes phone call to employee as a response to a customer call in the late evening
T- He is speaking in an intimate and close way (not sexual, just a closeness)
F- Jealous
A- Tense up, want to ask who he was talking to, withdraw instead, say nothing is wrong
R- I try to suppress feelings and end up feeling lonely and vulnerable

I get jealous of my husband’s work and his relationships with employees. I don’t think he’s unfaithful, but I resent his intimacy with people he claims to just view as employees.