How to change your past

Doing July homework workbook. I only invited one of 5 siblings to my wedding. How do I change that story to not feel shame and regret? It was a stupid decision and caused a trajectory of separation and pain with my siblings. I was rude to my parents and my mother in law at my wedding. I was a different person then. How do I find the positive story to rewrite?

I tell my kids to elope . … that is a positive. I took care of myself as best I could at the time. I am learning to forgive myself which makes me more forgiving of others. I see positive lessons but not sure how to rewrite to feel like a hero. Is that what Brooke wants me to do with this assignment?