How to deal with medical stress and uncertainty

My family is currently battling two separate instances of medical uncertainty. I am a mom of two, married. I am undergoing a series of biopsies and treatments for potential cancer in a reproductive organ. I want another baby, but this concern has serious implications for that option. My youngest child also has an as-of-yet undetermined medical concern. She screams for hours a day due to the severe pain she is feeling. We’ve taken her for blood draws, x-rays and countless doctor appointments. I don’t know where this is going. It’s difficult to deal with it all. I understand the model well and am not new to coaching.