How to know when it’s “over”.

I’ve been struggling lately to decide if I should end my relationship.

It’s constant bickering and fighting, and I can definitely take my half of the responsibility in that. But I don’t know if we should continue to be together or just end it.

It definitely makes me upset knowing that my partner wouldn’t be around, and that I would miss him very much. But the other half of me feels it really isn’t working.

When I bring this up to him, he really does not want to break up. But I don’t want to stay to not hurt him.

I’m sure this isn’t the first time you’ve heard this question —but I would love some insight on how to handle the situation and know when it’s over.