How to Show Up

I had an argument with my partner and I didn’t like the way he spoke to me during the argument. He raised his voice and his tone was, in my opinion, disrespectful.

We haven’t spoken since. I don’t know how to show up with him when I see him next. Brooke talks about choosing ‘love’ all the time, but won’t that send the message that it’s ok for him to treat me like that?