How To Use Proactivation

Listening to your proactivation podcast and my friend and I have had a discussion come up with some questions. That if your goal or dream that you have is possibly reliant on someone else- say if you’re married and want to have a baby by this year or if you want to be married by this age. Or for us our careers and work life are at the beck n call of your employers schedule which (they never know what their schedule is before maybe 6 hrs before it is happening) so that there is no stability in being able to plan weeks let alone months or years out? How would you continue to plan for and around these types of obstacles. Not trying to make an excuse- i realize mother’s lives revolve around their children’s schedule- but I also know that they have some control and knowledge of what that schedule is. Please help!