Help with models please

C – husband spending $ on building out a custom car
T – I hate this
F – used? Pushed?
A – remunerating thoughts of trying to be on board with this but am resentful, not let him manage the $ for the budget so I can control and complain about it and want to limit anymore spending which is not going to happen. Pay the bills, get upset seeing so much money go out that should be our retirement. Vacillate between supporting him and being angry that he wants to do this.
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