C – I was on TV this week & husband committed to recording segment
T – I can repurpose this content to market my Life Coaching practice
F – excited
A – I was on TV
R- husband fell asleep and didn’t record segment

The outcome of this model is that when I found out he didn’t record my segment I hung up the phone on him as I was driving from the TV station.
Since that day he hasn’t spoken to me even when I tried to talk about the issue
I currently have a manual that the silent treatment is childish , self absorbed and a waste of time
We also are in business together in that he codes my membership site and for my business clients he is a referral partner
In this time 2 people want websites like mine and he’s silent in spite of me wanting to communicate
my feeling about this is that we are losing money because these are paying clients

C – Husband isn’t talking to me even when I try to talk to him
T-
F- sad
A-not refer the new clients to him, not increase income from those new clients, double down on what I control which is FB lives, making offers, looking for additional income streams, be pissed in my mind
R-

I’m struggling with how to allow him to be who he chooses to be and show up the way he chooses AND hold space to be pissed AND productive.

I have written my “ideal” list of how I would want him to show up to feel like I’m in a healthy marriage and I’ve heard Brooke say I can have the feelings NOW of him showing up like MY ideal but struggling to put the tools together for this scenario