Husband drinking

C: Husband drank a bottle of wine while looking after small kids
T: He can’t be trusted to be responsible
F: Anger
A: Criticize him, rage, fear
R: ?

I don’t know what to do. I should give up my business now because if I travel I can’t trust him to not get drunk when he’s looking after my kids. I see him as weak and someone I can’t rely on. I’m dismayed and angry